HOW ARE YOU GETTING ON WITH YOUR PARTNER?

During lockdown plenty of us reviewed whose company we really wanted to be in. Some couples appreciated the chance to have extra time together, and some people found their partner ever more annoying.

It is often said that to have a real enduring love, you first have to love yourself. How can you learn to do that? How do you firstly establish a relationship with yourself that is kind, generous and forgiving?

Well, you learned a lot of things when you were very young, from the things your parents said and did. These things are wired into the brain at a subconscious level, and sometimes they can be undermining. In hypnosis we have he opportunity to replace unhelpful early conditioning with concepts that are more helpful. We don’t have to examine the unhelpful thoughts, we can simply introduce better ones, and let go of the old stuff we don’t want or need.

So if your relationships keep failing because you’re seen to be too needy, you can break that pattern. Or if you push people away, and find intimacy difficult. Or you tend to need to dominate the person you’re with, or are easily dominated. Any of these patterns might have been preset early on in your life, and only when let that pattern go will you be truly free to follow the path that you set for yourself.

If you’re ready to explore the road to setting yourself free, and setting your own course, there has never been a better time! Why not phone me on 07937 876901 or send me a text.